Perinatal loss—a life-changing experience
Abstract
ABSTRACTThis article looks at the influence of the bereavement culture of the 20th century, compares this with more recent research and grief theory, and relates these to current practice with families after miscarriage, stillbirth or perinatal death. It considers the importance of memory-making and maintaining continuing bonds, alongside the need to adjust one's life around such a loss. The author is a hospital chaplain and mother of four who has both a personal and professional interest in the changing nature of perinatal bereavement care.
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